Your son prefers cars to all the other toys? What explains this preoccupation?
Despite the fact that the house has already tens of wheeled equipment, the child still rejoices greatly, if he has received as a gift another car, bus, tractor… And my mother is going through, because his son needed to fully develop, and, in addition to cars, not interested in anything.
Why is he so loves cars?
Well-known theory of imitation, in which a boy in the games tries on the role of the father or other reputable men, sitting behind the wheel of a car, in our case it does not work. The fact is that the baby begins to identify themselves by gender in the age of about 3 years, and the passion for cars appears much earlier, some boys are already for a year and a half. Passion during this time (from 1 year to 3 years) is gaining momentum and later reinforced by the understanding that “I, as a dad, I love to ride in the car.” And from this understanding becomes even stronger. But even before one and a half years, and more specifically, in the prenatal period of a boy’s body begins to produce male-specific hormones — androgens, which, in the opinion of physiologists, and are the reason for choosing “masculine” Continue reading
When a child enters an early age, he may cry for different minor (from the point of view of the mother), because the nervous system is under development. More kids cry with melancholy temperament, which implies the weakness of the nervous processes. This kid can Wake up crying to fall asleep and weeping, easily upset, worried, if something does not work, sociable, but dependent on fellowship (experiencing, if another kid doesn’t want to be friends with him).
Cry baby at this age, when left without a mother is like the earth under my feet to lose.
But even at this age crying can be capricious. A sensitive mother can understand when a child is naughty, and when he’s really upset (which happens often). Generally, in order to determine this, you need to analyze the events that occurred before the scream. If the baby hasn’t slept in a long walk in the street, now it’s time to go home, and he has the hatchet, because he wants to ride on the swings, mom will understand that it is not just a whim, it is a signal of fatigue, which should not exacerbate, and distracting the baby, run home.
If the child requires the store to buy a toy, mom refuses, he insists and rushes in crying, there was a desire to insist. At this age the child can be easily distracted, to divert Continue reading
Today our meeting will be devoted to the specifics of the emotional development of children and prevention of emotional disorders.
Everyone knows that the emotions we mirror our desires and their satisfaction. It is very important that the emotional state of our children were safe.
Negative emotions accumulate, and this may affect somatic health (tics, stuttering, enuresis, develop fears, aggressiveness as a defensive reaction). With prolonged stress, these States can become stable features of personality. Moreover, for example, such a condition, as aggression can be a result of copying the behavior of others or defensive reaction. “Defensively”, the child can make the seemingly inexplicable actions: to run away from home, so adults looking for him, thought about him, etc.
There are many examples of neurotic condition becomes a neurosis, which go to the doctor. It is very important to notice unusual emotional state of the baby and to know how to behave with such a child. And now let us look at this chart, which reflects the causes of emotional problems of preschoolers.
These Continue reading