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What to do with the child during the summer
  Ended the school year, the long-awaited summer time: you can sleep as much as you like, no homework, no school – freedom, in a word! But the parents now…

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Proper upbringing of the child

 

I often say that every kid – it’s the person and not his nurture, and develop a “under the General size fits all”. So the question is – and is “the proper upbringing of the child”? For me, vospitanie “right”, if the child grew up healthy physically and mentally and he grafted human values. So today I will tell you the 12 principles of child rearing, and the rest – your creativity.

Principle 1

Principle 3

What You do makes a huge difference. You – the standard of behavior for your child and all your words that you cannot scream, you have to be honest, you need to wear a hat and all the rest, will not mean anything until you will not to follow them. Do you think that will make a child, if I hear from you not to shout, and immediately after that will see how you yell at his father? Picture of the world in his head will be shaky and ambiguous, it is certainly not what you wanted to achieve. Baby learns to talk, to respond, to Express emotions, to behave in society, looking at you and daddy. So set an example.

Principle 4

Views on the education and actions of the parents must be United. Only then the child will feel the security and integrity of the surrounding world. If a mother comforting a baby after dad hits him on the butt with a belt, so you’re raising the paddle. Continue reading

Methods of education of children

Depending on the age of the child, his behavior and personality, parents can apply a variety of methods of education. Used parents choice of methods largely depends on how educated the parents, what is the level of their pedagogical and psychological knowledge, etc.

Important role in the selection of methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, democratic and complacent.

Parenting techniques not only allow to form a harmonious, Mature personality, sometimes they become the causes of many psychological complexes.

Basic methods of education

A method of conversation or persuasion. This method can be applied in the education of children of different ages and with any character. During the conversation, the parent explains and argues how one ought to behave in a given situation, figures out the motives of behavior of the baby. Your tone of voice a parent conversation needs to be calm, confident, solid. Even year-old kids who can’t answer, listen carefully to the parents, reacting to the intonation. Continue reading

Children close in age, especially birth

 

Some parents consciously strive to ensure that the age difference between their children was minimal. Others lose vigilance, piously believing that while mom feeds her baby breast, a birth is impossible. Usually, doctors recommend women to plan their next pregnancy after 2-3 years after birth. At the same time, it is widely believed that the birth after a short pass easier, because the body “remembers” the recent experience. Who’s right – official medicine or popular rumor? What is the ideal interval between the appearances of the children to light?

Doctors often say that pregnancy – is not a disease, but at the same time see it as a test for the organism. In the body of a woman expecting a baby, there are the huge changes – changing the quantity and quality of blood, increasing pressure in the abdomen , several times increases the load on the internal organs (heart, lungs, urogenital system and digestive tract), spine and blood vessels. That’s why the waiting period the child is often exacerbated chronic disease or identification of new. The fetus receives from the mother’s body all the nutrients required for growth and development, so pregnant women increases the need for vitamins and minerals. In addition, during pregnancy, childbirth and lactation is constantly changing the hormonal Continue reading