One day you’re trying to dress your baby to go for a walk and he empties your jacket with a cry: “I am myself!” You invite him to go to lunch, but he refused, despite the fact that obviously hungry. Congratulations, it is a crisis three years ! We will tell, what it is and how to survive.
During the crisis three years it seems that the baby is doing everything contrary. The old ways of managing no longer work, the little one stops to listen. It can ruffle even the most patient parent.
One of the most prominent Russian psychologists L. S. Vygotsky described the “semitische symptoms” of the crisis three years
Negativism — the child refuses to do something just because it is offered by an adult. He seeks to do the opposite, often to the detriment of their own interests.
Stubbornness — the child insists on something just because he asked. If the child badly wants any toy and her persistently seeks is not stubbornness. If you see that actually it is not so and want something, and it continues to demand only because he does not want to back down from his words — that’s called stubbornness.
Obstinacy — the denial lifestyle, which has evolved up to 3 years, what he did before. The child does not like the way his clothes, he rebels against having to hold Continue reading
The individual and society. Why always these words are next? Personal characteristics always call a certain collection of properties of an individual, useful for society and recognized that same society. Try not to name the identity of the lone survivor. Everyone is used to relate the notion of the individual and of society and individuals in society. As a loner, swim the Strait, or lived for several years and retaining bright minds, and health — is not a person.
Naturally, for most people this is unacceptable, and everyone will assume the identity of the person who achieved certain successes in the properties or qualities important for each company separately.
In every culture or social layer, group, isolated from the rest of the community by a number of attributes or constraints will be important and useful properties. It is the measure of mastery of the individual these relevant properties and will be (for society) to determine the personal characteristics of the individual.
We consider as an individual to any person, without dividing by sex, age and racial lines. Identity in the society — is the degree of development of consciousness, mind, Continue reading