For many families, divorce is not the end of the relationship. After the divorce, spouses often have to maintain a relationship for the sake of the children, a joint business or for communicating with former General relatives.
In addition, it difficult to switch off from the total system of relations, which included friends, children, parents of each spouse.
Psychological problems of families after divorce is very diverse. They depend upon a variety of circumstances: from the causes of divorce, the reaction to the divorce of others, from the age of the spouses, by the presence of children. Some of the problems the couple are aware of, and they are accessible to external observation of people. But part of the problem goes unnoticed and more and more hidden from prying eyes layers. Here are some of them.
One of the main and the most painful problems of the family after divorce – the problem of relations between the former spouses with children. No wonder many people are trying to save the crumbling family for children. Because divorce seriously worsens the conditions for the upbringing and development of the child. Many parents worry it is very painful. Psychological problems of the child and the family as a whole Continue reading
Svetlana Ovchinnikova, privately practicing psychologist, psychoanalyst, psychiatrist of the 1st category.
Many people facing divorce family are staying in a very typical misconception: finally, the hated spouse is gone, dissolved in the air or something like that. However, in most cases, especially if the family has children, everything goes differently.
Many parents hope that their divorce the child will suffer quietly and upset if this does not happen. All children suffer the divorce of parents is hard and this is quite normal. Only some of his experiences publicly display, while others, suffering no less, do not show it. The external peace of the child in the situation of parental divorce often means the beginning of the development of neurosis.
What’s going on?
To divorce children react with fear and confusion. In the mind of the child the parents decision to break up is not divorce them with each other, and divorce one of them with him. Fear overcomes him not only because of the loss of his father (which is often), but fears to lose his mother, often because their parents explain divorce: “We no longer understand each Continue reading