Methods of education of children
Depending on the age of the child, his behavior and personality, parents can apply a variety of methods of education. Used parents choice of methods largely depends on how educated…

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The age Difference between the first and second child
  We have all heard the statement that "one child grows up selfish". The assertion is certainly questionable, but perhaps it is the truth. So before every family, where there…

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Psychological problems of families after divorce
For many families, divorce is not the end of the relationship. After the divorce, spouses often have to maintain a relationship for the sake of the children, a joint business…

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What to do with the child during the summer

 

Ended the school year, the long-awaited summer time: you can sleep as much as you like, no homework, no school – freedom, in a word!

But the parents now the question arises, what to do with the child, so that it will not go crazy from boredom and excess energy during the summer holidays, so as not brought to mind the immediate family and the time went to good use.

Of course, summer camps, kids clubs, etc. trip to village to the grandmother and the grandfather, vacation with her parents is a great idea. But, as a rule, free time still remains and it needed something to fill.

I offer readers Mirsovetov few ideas how to spend your summer holidays and leave time for boredom and idleness, for parents, or for those who will be with the child during the holidays at home.

The first thing I would like to say, is a very important mode of the day and its planning. So all day you with a child was based on a clear plan. Predictability and constancy give the child a sense of confidence and peace of mind, he knows what to do at one or another point of time.

Not necessarily stand up in alarm, and as early as in school, but it is desirable that it was one and the same time and not too late. It is important Continue reading

The interior of the nursery: tips for parents

 

The theme of the interior of the nursery so hyped that there is no point in trying to describe the same thing, trying to advertise another product. So talk in simple language the average citizen’s standard two-bedroom apartment.

So what we have:

Not really,

– You have a small child,

– You have not one little child

and most importantly

– do You have a separate children (you are lucky).

– You even have some savings for pediatric equipment.

Let’s go with the end – if the funds in Your Bank account sufficient to pay for the work of the designer and what he will let You down – this article can not be read.

If You have a limited amount of money – decide rationally:

Tip # 1: Pricing

Small children will ever appreciate Your investments in expensive Wallpaper (the Wallpaper in the nursery ), floor covering and natural furniture to order (although, of course, is a great and durable option). They love to tear, to draw, to scratch and peeing where stopped their curious eyes. This does not mean that we need to buy consumer goods. God forbid! Children only the best. Just decide for yourself what You are ready to change in a child after two years, at best, three or four.

Tip # 2: set Wallpaper

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Free advice of child psychologists – Children in situations of divorce parents

 

Svetlana Ovchinnikova, privately practicing psychologist, psychoanalyst, psychiatrist of the 1st category.

Many people facing divorce family are staying in a very typical misconception: finally, the hated spouse is gone, dissolved in the air or something like that. However, in most cases, especially if the family has children, everything goes differently.

Many parents hope that their divorce the child will suffer quietly and upset if this does not happen. All children suffer the divorce of parents is hard and this is quite normal. Only some of his experiences publicly display, while others, suffering no less, do not show it. The external peace of the child in the situation of parental divorce often means the beginning of the development of neurosis.

What’s going on?

To divorce children react with fear and confusion. In the mind of the child the parents decision to break up is not divorce them with each other, and divorce one of them with him. Fear overcomes him not only because of the loss of his father (which is often), but fears to lose his mother, often because their parents explain divorce: “We no longer understand each Continue reading