One day you’re trying to dress your baby to go for a walk and he empties your jacket with a cry: “I am myself!” You invite him to go to lunch, but he refused, despite the fact that obviously hungry. Congratulations, it is a crisis three years ! We will tell, what it is and how to survive.
During the crisis three years it seems that the baby is doing everything contrary. The old ways of managing no longer work, the little one stops to listen. It can ruffle even the most patient parent.
One of the most prominent Russian psychologists L. S. Vygotsky described the “semitische symptoms” of the crisis three years
Negativism — the child refuses to do something just because it is offered by an adult. He seeks to do the opposite, often to the detriment of their own interests.
Stubbornness — the child insists on something just because he asked. If the child badly wants any toy and her persistently seeks is not stubbornness. If you see that actually it is not so and want something, and it continues to demand only because he does not want to back down from his words — that’s called stubbornness.
Obstinacy — the denial lifestyle, which has evolved up to 3 years, what he did before. The child does not like the way his clothes, he rebels against having to hold Continue reading
The theme of the interior of the nursery so hyped that there is no point in trying to describe the same thing, trying to advertise another product. So talk in simple language the average citizen’s standard two-bedroom apartment.
So what we have:
– You have a small child,
– You have not one little child
and most importantly
– do You have a separate children (you are lucky).
– You even have some savings for pediatric equipment.
Let’s go with the end – if the funds in Your Bank account sufficient to pay for the work of the designer and what he will let You down – this article can not be read.
If You have a limited amount of money – decide rationally:
Tip # 1: Pricing
Small children will ever appreciate Your investments in expensive Wallpaper (the Wallpaper in the nursery ), floor covering and natural furniture to order (although, of course, is a great and durable option). They love to tear, to draw, to scratch and peeing where stopped their curious eyes. This does not mean that we need to buy consumer goods. God forbid! Children only the best. Just decide for yourself what You are ready to change in a child after two years, at best, three or four.
Tip # 2: set Wallpaper
Svetlana Ovchinnikova, privately practicing psychologist, psychoanalyst, psychiatrist of the 1st category.
Many people facing divorce family are staying in a very typical misconception: finally, the hated spouse is gone, dissolved in the air or something like that. However, in most cases, especially if the family has children, everything goes differently.
Many parents hope that their divorce the child will suffer quietly and upset if this does not happen. All children suffer the divorce of parents is hard and this is quite normal. Only some of his experiences publicly display, while others, suffering no less, do not show it. The external peace of the child in the situation of parental divorce often means the beginning of the development of neurosis.
What’s going on?
To divorce children react with fear and confusion. In the mind of the child the parents decision to break up is not divorce them with each other, and divorce one of them with him. Fear overcomes him not only because of the loss of his father (which is often), but fears to lose his mother, often because their parents explain divorce: “We no longer understand each Continue reading