For anybody not a secret that game is the best form of training of the child, and the younger the child, the greater the efficiency delivered in games tasks. Parents, always willing to entertain the baby, to give him maximum pleasure and positive emotions, should not forget that the game can contribute to the development of a skill or knowledge. In addition, enthusiastic and interested game parent-child best promotes the development of such components of the personality of the child as his attention, imagination, memory, reasoning and aptitude, i.e. anything that will help him in the future purposeful walk through life, in keeping with his individual will and the laws of society.
What skills should your child before school
Games on the development of perception contribute to the child’s ability to analyze objects in size, color and shape. The child at the end of the preschool period of life (i.e. 6-7 years) must distinguish seven colors of the spectrum, as well as their hues and saturation. The prospective student must be learnt the basic geometric shapes (square, circle, triangle, rectangle and oval), which, moreover, the child must be able to vary and to pick Continue reading
It must be emphasized that great importance is the duration of the intervals between births. So, if the family are two more children, the sibling (with a difference of up to two years), they have the features of older and younger children are very mild, they do not have time to realize the difference in the attitude of parents. The eldest child in this case did not have to play the role of “guardian” Junior, take care of it. If children of different gender, in a psychological sense, and the youngest child to parents — “firstborn”, psychological first child, for example the first son. In this case, some of the patterns belonging to the firstborn (namely, that its development is again for the mother and father the opening of the new), applies to the second child of the other sex (as the development and nurturing of a baby boy after the experience of raising a girl — for new parents).
The same regularities are possible in a family with several children, where children grow “pairs” (boy—girl). An example of this is the Ulyanov family, which was like three pairs: older children: Anna and Sasha medium: Volodya (the future leader of the revolution in Russia) and Junior – Mitya and named maniasha (Mary), of whom the whole family perceived as small Continue reading
“Try for one day to record all the phrases and comments that you tell your children. And find that more than half of the words and claims are of a negative connotation,” so begins a seminar for parents of Kiev psychologist and coach Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
The Soviet model of education, according to him, today’s children are not suitable. Strict discipline and insistence on the part of parents, children often perceive as a dislike. Post-Soviet moms and dads have to learn the respect for children, and the ability to clearly designate the boundaries of what, and more importantly, effective communication, without shouting and humiliation. But, it turns out, not many can do it. Adults unconsciously reproduce anything that you experienced in childhood. To break this vicious circle, of Ukrainian parents are sent to special training.
“I tell my son the same hurtful words that I once said mother, and blamed myself for it. But how to explain to him that you need to learn, don’t know,” about such a complaint comes to training every other parent. “Many adults think about how to educate children, not to cause them psychological trauma they received in childhood, standing in a corner on the buckwheat,” says Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
Instead of a slap
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