Your son prefers cars to all the other toys? What explains this preoccupation?
Despite the fact that the house has already tens of wheeled equipment, the child still rejoices greatly, if he has received as a gift another car, bus, tractor… And my mother is going through, because his son needed to fully develop, and, in addition to cars, not interested in anything.
Why is he so loves cars?
Well-known theory of imitation, in which a boy in the games tries on the role of the father or other reputable men, sitting behind the wheel of a car, in our case it does not work. The fact is that the baby begins to identify themselves by gender in the age of about 3 years, and the passion for cars appears much earlier, some boys are already for a year and a half. Passion during this time (from 1 year to 3 years) is gaining momentum and later reinforced by the understanding that “I, as a dad, I love to ride in the car.” And from this understanding becomes even stronger. But even before one and a half years, and more specifically, in the prenatal period of a boy’s body begins to produce male-specific hormones — androgens, which, in the opinion of physiologists, and are the reason for choosing “masculine” Continue reading
Many parents do not think about this issue – communication happens by itself, they are happy and the parents and the children. While. But there are adults who have already realized the great importance of the communication style to the personality development of their child.
It is experimentally proved that if the baby gets good nutrition and good medical care, but deprived of regular contact with an adult, he develops not only mentally, but also physically: not growing, lose weight, lose interest in life. However, as food can be harmful and incorrect communication can hurt the psyche of the child, his emotional well-being and will subsequently impact on his life.
How to communicate with your child? This question is complicated and simple at the same time. Difficult due to our style of communication is influenced by many factors, most of which we are not aware. Experts came to the conclusion that the parent’s interaction involuntarily imprinted in the psyche of the child before school age. As an adult, a person plays it like a natural. Thus from generation to generation is social inheritance of the style of communication: the majority of parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood. At the same Continue reading
Today our meeting will be devoted to the specifics of the emotional development of children and prevention of emotional disorders.
Everyone knows that the emotions we mirror our desires and their satisfaction. It is very important that the emotional state of our children were safe.
Negative emotions accumulate, and this may affect somatic health (tics, stuttering, enuresis, develop fears, aggressiveness as a defensive reaction). With prolonged stress, these States can become stable features of personality. Moreover, for example, such a condition, as aggression can be a result of copying the behavior of others or defensive reaction. “Defensively”, the child can make the seemingly inexplicable actions: to run away from home, so adults looking for him, thought about him, etc.
There are many examples of neurotic condition becomes a neurosis, which go to the doctor. It is very important to notice unusual emotional state of the baby and to know how to behave with such a child. And now let us look at this chart, which reflects the causes of emotional problems of preschoolers.
These Continue reading