Many parents do not think about this issue – communication happens by itself, they are happy and the parents and the children. While. But there are adults who have already realized the great importance of the communication style to the personality development of their child.
It is experimentally proved that if the baby gets good nutrition and good medical care, but deprived of regular contact with an adult, he develops not only mentally, but also physically: not growing, lose weight, lose interest in life. However, as food can be harmful and incorrect communication can hurt the psyche of the child, his emotional well-being and will subsequently impact on his life.
How to communicate with your child? This question is complicated and simple at the same time. Difficult due to our style of communication is influenced by many factors, most of which we are not aware. Experts came to the conclusion that the parent’s interaction involuntarily imprinted in the psyche of the child before school age. As an adult, a person plays it like a natural. Thus from generation to generation is social inheritance of the style of communication: the majority of parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood. At the same Continue reading
When a child enters an early age, he may cry for different minor (from the point of view of the mother), because the nervous system is under development. More kids cry with melancholy temperament, which implies the weakness of the nervous processes. This kid can Wake up crying to fall asleep and weeping, easily upset, worried, if something does not work, sociable, but dependent on fellowship (experiencing, if another kid doesn’t want to be friends with him).
Cry baby at this age, when left without a mother is like the earth under my feet to lose.
But even at this age crying can be capricious. A sensitive mother can understand when a child is naughty, and when he’s really upset (which happens often). Generally, in order to determine this, you need to analyze the events that occurred before the scream. If the baby hasn’t slept in a long walk in the street, now it’s time to go home, and he has the hatchet, because he wants to ride on the swings, mom will understand that it is not just a whim, it is a signal of fatigue, which should not exacerbate, and distracting the baby, run home.
If the child requires the store to buy a toy, mom refuses, he insists and rushes in crying, there was a desire to insist. At this age the child can be easily distracted, to divert Continue reading
Today our meeting will be devoted to the specifics of the emotional development of children and prevention of emotional disorders.
Everyone knows that the emotions we mirror our desires and their satisfaction. It is very important that the emotional state of our children were safe.
Negative emotions accumulate, and this may affect somatic health (tics, stuttering, enuresis, develop fears, aggressiveness as a defensive reaction). With prolonged stress, these States can become stable features of personality. Moreover, for example, such a condition, as aggression can be a result of copying the behavior of others or defensive reaction. “Defensively”, the child can make the seemingly inexplicable actions: to run away from home, so adults looking for him, thought about him, etc.
There are many examples of neurotic condition becomes a neurosis, which go to the doctor. It is very important to notice unusual emotional state of the baby and to know how to behave with such a child. And now let us look at this chart, which reflects the causes of emotional problems of preschoolers.
These Continue reading