“Try for one day to record all the phrases and comments that you tell your children. And find that more than half of the words and claims are of a negative connotation,” so begins a seminar for parents of Kiev psychologist and coach Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
The Soviet model of education, according to him, today’s children are not suitable. Strict discipline and insistence on the part of parents, children often perceive as a dislike. Post-Soviet moms and dads have to learn the respect for children, and the ability to clearly designate the boundaries of what, and more importantly, effective communication, without shouting and humiliation. But, it turns out, not many can do it. Adults unconsciously reproduce anything that you experienced in childhood. To break this vicious circle, of Ukrainian parents are sent to special training.
“I tell my son the same hurtful words that I once said mother, and blamed myself for it. But how to explain to him that you need to learn, don’t know,” about such a complaint comes to training every other parent. “Many adults think about how to educate children, not to cause them psychological trauma they received in childhood, standing in a corner on the buckwheat,” says Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
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Looking at the star of TV or top model, after a couple of months after birth showing beautiful bodies, ask the question – how stars lose weight after childbirth? How celebrities lose weight? How they manage to regain the perfect shape?
Not only that, the stars themselves are trying to “return to duty” as quickly as possible, but the audience wants to see their Pets are always in good shape, and the desire of the public – law for celebrities. Yes even the nasty paparazzi lurking in the most inappropriate places – so we have to control myself and without any pity for oneself again to become slim.
Recovery time from working stars never enough, and how fast celebrities lose weight after giving birth, suggests that not only do they make great efforts, but are also effective methods.
Today we offer to your attention the most effective diet for weight loss from world stars. But first – the experts ‘ opinion.
How celebrities lose weight: what doctors think
But doctors believe that intensive weight loss process is resorted to by star mom, is very harmful and is a great stress for the body. In a “normal” life to lose weight in this Continue reading
I often say that every kid – it’s the person and not his nurture, and develop a “under the General size fits all”. So the question is – and is “the proper upbringing of the child”? For me, vospitanie “right”, if the child grew up healthy physically and mentally and he grafted human values. So today I will tell you the 12 principles of child rearing, and the rest – your creativity.
What You do makes a huge difference. You – the standard of behavior for your child and all your words that you cannot scream, you have to be honest, you need to wear a hat and all the rest, will not mean anything until you will not to follow them. Do you think that will make a child, if I hear from you not to shout, and immediately after that will see how you yell at his father? Picture of the world in his head will be shaky and ambiguous, it is certainly not what you wanted to achieve. Baby learns to talk, to respond, to Express emotions, to behave in society, looking at you and daddy. So set an example.
Views on the education and actions of the parents must be United. Only then the child will feel the security and integrity of the surrounding world. If a mother comforting a baby after dad hits him on the butt with a belt, so you’re raising the paddle. Continue reading