Child have nightmares: what to do in such a situation than to help him? Sometimes at night child dream of spiders, witches, snakes that try to harm it. Sometimes, on the contrary, the child in the dream behaves aggressively: it rips off someone’s head, smothers and pierces the enemy. In these dreams, the child sees a strange threatening landscapes, non-existent animals and birds with frightening parts of the body – big eyes, for example. Or images, which the child sees, begin to be transformed from one to another. These dreams, at times, very frightening the child. It can start to be afraid to fall asleep, gets up in the morning, not enough sleep, stressed or in a bad mood.
The first thing you need to be aware of when dealing with fears, it is not to expect a quick effect. Folk wisdom says: “go slow to go fast”. Better to do it gradually, stress, excessive fixation of the child’s attention on the problem. Then guaranteed a lasting effect.
And second. Any negative habit in the child’s behavior, or undesirable aspects of his life need not be eradicated, and replaced. However, this applies equally to the habits of adults with whom they are fighting.
About the origin of dreams and why does a child have nightmares
For many families, divorce is not the end of the relationship. After the divorce, spouses often have to maintain a relationship for the sake of the children, a joint business or for communicating with former General relatives.
In addition, it difficult to switch off from the total system of relations, which included friends, children, parents of each spouse.
Psychological problems of families after divorce is very diverse. They depend upon a variety of circumstances: from the causes of divorce, the reaction to the divorce of others, from the age of the spouses, by the presence of children. Some of the problems the couple are aware of, and they are accessible to external observation of people. But part of the problem goes unnoticed and more and more hidden from prying eyes layers. Here are some of them.
One of the main and the most painful problems of the family after divorce – the problem of relations between the former spouses with children. No wonder many people are trying to save the crumbling family for children. Because divorce seriously worsens the conditions for the upbringing and development of the child. Many parents worry it is very painful. Psychological problems of the child and the family as a whole Continue reading
The theme of the interior of the nursery so hyped that there is no point in trying to describe the same thing, trying to advertise another product. So talk in simple language the average citizen’s standard two-bedroom apartment.
So what we have:
– You have a small child,
– You have not one little child
and most importantly
– do You have a separate children (you are lucky).
– You even have some savings for pediatric equipment.
Let’s go with the end – if the funds in Your Bank account sufficient to pay for the work of the designer and what he will let You down – this article can not be read.
If You have a limited amount of money – decide rationally:
Tip # 1: Pricing
Small children will ever appreciate Your investments in expensive Wallpaper (the Wallpaper in the nursery ), floor covering and natural furniture to order (although, of course, is a great and durable option). They love to tear, to draw, to scratch and peeing where stopped their curious eyes. This does not mean that we need to buy consumer goods. God forbid! Children only the best. Just decide for yourself what You are ready to change in a child after two years, at best, three or four.
Tip # 2: set Wallpaper