We have all heard the statement that “one child grows up selfish”. The assertion is certainly questionable, but perhaps it is the truth. So before every family, where there is one child, then the question is whether to give birth a second? In most families, the question of a second child is progressing. And so the decision was made: we have a second!
And before the parents will have to solve the second question: what is the ideal difference between children? One answer, of course, does not exist, and each family finds its own solutions to the question of a second child. In this article we will look at possible options for the difference in age between the first and second child.
The age difference between the children up to two years. Such babies are called pogodki. The main advantage of such a small age difference between children is that the children will have friends in common, shared toys, shared interests. Kids close in age is the perfect pair for play, closer, perhaps, can only be twins, or twins. The young mother quickly gave birth to a second child, will sit on maternity leave for about four years, instead of two times in three years, that is, in the future will be able to make a career without the distraction of the birth of children. Also parents of children-the Continue reading
This test will help to determine the psychological state of the child while drawing, to identify the most important member of the family to identify family contacts.
Prepare: album sheet, pencil, colored pencils, eraser.
Invite a child to draw pictures of their family. While drawing no more prompt to the child . Note of who the child drew in the first place – the man most loved by the child.
When the picture is ready . ask: “Who did you draw?”. “Why not drew… (e.g., the Pope)?”. “Who’s the most happy? Why?”. “Who is the most miserable? Why?”.
In this figure the family can be judged about the relationship in the family. Of course, this test may not reflect the whole picture, but something from the picture we can draw.
1. Analysis of the structure of figure
Drawn family structure corresponds to the real – the child has correctly formed the concept of “My family”.
If a child is someone not painted or drawn very far away from myself – conflict with this person, alienation, dissatisfaction with communication with him.
Drew other children or adults not living with the child – the child has trouble communicating with these people.
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Autumn came and began to sniff both children and adults. Tellingly: what was used to treat colds a year or two ago, are now ineffective. Have the doctors to experiment on the fly, using various drugs, and it costs the parents of the sick child to a large coin, and the side effects of antibiotics in the form of allergies.
A month and a half, the cold is back, and this suggests that the immune system, alas, is no good…
Here’s my baby and preschooler for two autumn months had torpid rhinopharyngitis twice already, which cost the family budget about 3 T. R. Had to undertake the elaboration of such good old and proven (to myself) a method of strengthening the immune system, as tempering .
So, where to start? He who seeks will find… so I “accidentally” fell into the hands of the pamphlet of Professor klyuchnikova Sergey Olegovich, head. the Department of children’s diseases, Russian state medical University, “Tips for hardening of the child”. What do we advise?
Of course, first need to visit your doctor. He will check the condition and will help to create an optimal program tempering procedures and their dosage based Continue reading