Ended the school year, the long-awaited summer time: you can sleep as much as you like, no homework, no school – freedom, in a word!
But the parents now the question arises, what to do with the child, so that it will not go crazy from boredom and excess energy during the summer holidays, so as not brought to mind the immediate family and the time went to good use.
Of course, summer camps, kids clubs, etc. trip to village to the grandmother and the grandfather, vacation with her parents is a great idea. But, as a rule, free time still remains and it needed something to fill.
I offer readers Mirsovetov few ideas how to spend your summer holidays and leave time for boredom and idleness, for parents, or for those who will be with the child during the holidays at home.
The first thing I would like to say, is a very important mode of the day and its planning. So all day you with a child was based on a clear plan. Predictability and constancy give the child a sense of confidence and peace of mind, he knows what to do at one or another point of time.
Not necessarily stand up in alarm, and as early as in school, but it is desirable that it was one and the same time and not too late. It is important Continue reading
For many families, divorce is not the end of the relationship. After the divorce, spouses often have to maintain a relationship for the sake of the children, a joint business or for communicating with former General relatives.
In addition, it difficult to switch off from the total system of relations, which included friends, children, parents of each spouse.
Psychological problems of families after divorce is very diverse. They depend upon a variety of circumstances: from the causes of divorce, the reaction to the divorce of others, from the age of the spouses, by the presence of children. Some of the problems the couple are aware of, and they are accessible to external observation of people. But part of the problem goes unnoticed and more and more hidden from prying eyes layers. Here are some of them.
One of the main and the most painful problems of the family after divorce – the problem of relations between the former spouses with children. No wonder many people are trying to save the crumbling family for children. Because divorce seriously worsens the conditions for the upbringing and development of the child. Many parents worry it is very painful. Psychological problems of the child and the family as a whole Continue reading
The theme of the interior of the nursery so hyped that there is no point in trying to describe the same thing, trying to advertise another product. So talk in simple language the average citizen’s standard two-bedroom apartment.
So what we have:
– You have a small child,
– You have not one little child
and most importantly
– do You have a separate children (you are lucky).
– You even have some savings for pediatric equipment.
Let’s go with the end – if the funds in Your Bank account sufficient to pay for the work of the designer and what he will let You down – this article can not be read.
If You have a limited amount of money – decide rationally:
Tip # 1: Pricing
Small children will ever appreciate Your investments in expensive Wallpaper (the Wallpaper in the nursery ), floor covering and natural furniture to order (although, of course, is a great and durable option). They love to tear, to draw, to scratch and peeing where stopped their curious eyes. This does not mean that we need to buy consumer goods. God forbid! Children only the best. Just decide for yourself what You are ready to change in a child after two years, at best, three or four.
Tip # 2: set Wallpaper
Svetlana Ovchinnikova, privately practicing psychologist, psychoanalyst, psychiatrist of the 1st category.
Many people facing divorce family are staying in a very typical misconception: finally, the hated spouse is gone, dissolved in the air or something like that. However, in most cases, especially if the family has children, everything goes differently.
Many parents hope that their divorce the child will suffer quietly and upset if this does not happen. All children suffer the divorce of parents is hard and this is quite normal. Only some of his experiences publicly display, while others, suffering no less, do not show it. The external peace of the child in the situation of parental divorce often means the beginning of the development of neurosis.
What’s going on?
To divorce children react with fear and confusion. In the mind of the child the parents decision to break up is not divorce them with each other, and divorce one of them with him. Fear overcomes him not only because of the loss of his father (which is often), but fears to lose his mother, often because their parents explain divorce: “We no longer understand each Continue reading
The individual and society. Why always these words are next? Personal characteristics always call a certain collection of properties of an individual, useful for society and recognized that same society. Try not to name the identity of the lone survivor. Everyone is used to relate the notion of the individual and of society and individuals in society. As a loner, swim the Strait, or lived for several years and retaining bright minds, and health — is not a person.
Naturally, for most people this is unacceptable, and everyone will assume the identity of the person who achieved certain successes in the properties or qualities important for each company separately.
In every culture or social layer, group, isolated from the rest of the community by a number of attributes or constraints will be important and useful properties. It is the measure of mastery of the individual these relevant properties and will be (for society) to determine the personal characteristics of the individual.
We consider as an individual to any person, without dividing by sex, age and racial lines. Identity in the society — is the degree of development of consciousness, mind, Continue reading