Free advice of child psychologists - Children in situations of divorce parents
  Svetlana Ovchinnikova, privately practicing psychologist, psychoanalyst, psychiatrist of the 1st category. Many people facing divorce family are staying in a very typical misconception: finally, the hated spouse is gone,…

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Psychotherapy of the Playground. Parenting
  "The first twelve months of baby's life is incomparable stress for the mother, perhaps more than pregnancy and childbirth," says Arlene Eisenberg, author of the world famous benefits for…

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Cars for boy
  Your son prefers cars to all the other toys? What explains this preoccupation? Despite the fact that the house has already tens of wheeled equipment, the child still rejoices…

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Games to develop creative thinking in preschool child

 

For anybody not a secret that game is the best form of training of the child, and the younger the child, the greater the efficiency delivered in games tasks. Parents, always willing to entertain the baby, to give him maximum pleasure and positive emotions, should not forget that the game can contribute to the development of a skill or knowledge. In addition, enthusiastic and interested game parent-child best promotes the development of such components of the personality of the child as his attention, imagination, memory, reasoning and aptitude, i.e. anything that will help him in the future purposeful walk through life, in keeping with his individual will and the laws of society.

What skills should your child before school

Games on the development of perception contribute to the child’s ability to analyze objects in size, color and shape. The child at the end of the preschool period of life (i.e. 6-7 years) must distinguish seven colors of the spectrum, as well as their hues and saturation. The prospective student must be learnt the basic geometric shapes (square, circle, triangle, rectangle and oval), which, moreover, the child must be able to vary and to pick Continue reading

Cars for boy

 

Your son prefers cars to all the other toys? What explains this preoccupation?

Despite the fact that the house has already tens of wheeled equipment, the child still rejoices greatly, if he has received as a gift another car, bus, tractor… And my mother is going through, because his son needed to fully develop, and, in addition to cars, not interested in anything.

Why is he so loves cars?

Well-known theory of imitation, in which a boy in the games tries on the role of the father or other reputable men, sitting behind the wheel of a car, in our case it does not work. The fact is that the baby begins to identify themselves by gender in the age of about 3 years, and the passion for cars appears much earlier, some boys are already for a year and a half. Passion during this time (from 1 year to 3 years) is gaining momentum and later reinforced by the understanding that “I, as a dad, I love to ride in the car.” And from this understanding becomes even stronger. But even before one and a half years, and more specifically, in the prenatal period of a boy’s body begins to produce male-specific hormones — androgens, which, in the opinion of physiologists, and are the reason for choosing “masculine” Continue reading

Why baby cry

 

When a child enters an early age, he may cry for different minor (from the point of view of the mother), because the nervous system is under development. More kids cry with melancholy temperament, which implies the weakness of the nervous processes. This kid can Wake up crying to fall asleep and weeping, easily upset, worried, if something does not work, sociable, but dependent on fellowship (experiencing, if another kid doesn’t want to be friends with him).

Cry baby at this age, when left without a mother is like the earth under my feet to lose.

But even at this age crying can be capricious. A sensitive mother can understand when a child is naughty, and when he’s really upset (which happens often). Generally, in order to determine this, you need to analyze the events that occurred before the scream. If the baby hasn’t slept in a long walk in the street, now it’s time to go home, and he has the hatchet, because he wants to ride on the swings, mom will understand that it is not just a whim, it is a signal of fatigue, which should not exacerbate, and distracting the baby, run home.

If the child requires the store to buy a toy, mom refuses, he insists and rushes in crying, there was a desire to insist. At this age the child can be easily distracted, to divert Continue reading