For anybody not a secret that game is the best form of training of the child, and the younger the child, the greater the efficiency delivered in games tasks. Parents, always willing to entertain the baby, to give him maximum pleasure and positive emotions, should not forget that the game can contribute to the development of a skill or knowledge. In addition, enthusiastic and interested game parent-child best promotes the development of such components of the personality of the child as his attention, imagination, memory, reasoning and aptitude, i.e. anything that will help him in the future purposeful walk through life, in keeping with his individual will and the laws of society.
What skills should your child before school
Games on the development of perception contribute to the child’s ability to analyze objects in size, color and shape. The child at the end of the preschool period of life (i.e. 6-7 years) must distinguish seven colors of the spectrum, as well as their hues and saturation. The prospective student must be learnt the basic geometric shapes (square, circle, triangle, rectangle and oval), which, moreover, the child must be able to vary and to pick Continue reading
“Try for one day to record all the phrases and comments that you tell your children. And find that more than half of the words and claims are of a negative connotation,” so begins a seminar for parents of Kiev psychologist and coach Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
The Soviet model of education, according to him, today’s children are not suitable. Strict discipline and insistence on the part of parents, children often perceive as a dislike. Post-Soviet moms and dads have to learn the respect for children, and the ability to clearly designate the boundaries of what, and more importantly, effective communication, without shouting and humiliation. But, it turns out, not many can do it. Adults unconsciously reproduce anything that you experienced in childhood. To break this vicious circle, of Ukrainian parents are sent to special training.
“I tell my son the same hurtful words that I once said mother, and blamed myself for it. But how to explain to him that you need to learn, don’t know,” about such a complaint comes to training every other parent. “Many adults think about how to educate children, not to cause them psychological trauma they received in childhood, standing in a corner on the buckwheat,” says Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
Instead of a slap
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Your son prefers cars to all the other toys? What explains this preoccupation?
Despite the fact that the house has already tens of wheeled equipment, the child still rejoices greatly, if he has received as a gift another car, bus, tractor… And my mother is going through, because his son needed to fully develop, and, in addition to cars, not interested in anything.
Why is he so loves cars?
Well-known theory of imitation, in which a boy in the games tries on the role of the father or other reputable men, sitting behind the wheel of a car, in our case it does not work. The fact is that the baby begins to identify themselves by gender in the age of about 3 years, and the passion for cars appears much earlier, some boys are already for a year and a half. Passion during this time (from 1 year to 3 years) is gaining momentum and later reinforced by the understanding that “I, as a dad, I love to ride in the car.” And from this understanding becomes even stronger. But even before one and a half years, and more specifically, in the prenatal period of a boy’s body begins to produce male-specific hormones — androgens, which, in the opinion of physiologists, and are the reason for choosing “masculine” Continue reading