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Some errors. Ukrainian parents learn to communicate effectively with children

 

“Try for one day to record all the phrases and comments that you tell your children. And find that more than half of the words and claims are of a negative connotation,” so begins a seminar for parents of Kiev psychologist and coach Evgeny Miroshnichenko.

The Soviet model of education, according to him, today’s children are not suitable. Strict discipline and insistence on the part of parents, children often perceive as a dislike. Post-Soviet moms and dads have to learn the respect for children, and the ability to clearly designate the boundaries of what, and more importantly, effective communication, without shouting and humiliation. But, it turns out, not many can do it. Adults unconsciously reproduce anything that you experienced in childhood. To break this vicious circle, of Ukrainian parents are sent to special training.

“I tell my son the same hurtful words that I once said mother, and blamed myself for it. But how to explain to him that you need to learn, don’t know,” about such a complaint comes to training every other parent. “Many adults think about how to educate children, not to cause them psychological trauma they received in childhood, standing in a corner on the buckwheat,” says Evgeny Miroshnichenko.

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Children close in age, especially birth

 

Some parents consciously strive to ensure that the age difference between their children was minimal. Others lose vigilance, piously believing that while mom feeds her baby breast, a birth is impossible. Usually, doctors recommend women to plan their next pregnancy after 2-3 years after birth. At the same time, it is widely believed that the birth after a short pass easier, because the body “remembers” the recent experience. Who’s right – official medicine or popular rumor? What is the ideal interval between the appearances of the children to light?

Doctors often say that pregnancy – is not a disease, but at the same time see it as a test for the organism. In the body of a woman expecting a baby, there are the huge changes – changing the quantity and quality of blood, increasing pressure in the abdomen , several times increases the load on the internal organs (heart, lungs, urogenital system and digestive tract), spine and blood vessels. That’s why the waiting period the child is often exacerbated chronic disease or identification of new. The fetus receives from the mother’s body all the nutrients required for growth and development, so pregnant women increases the need for vitamins and minerals. In addition, during pregnancy, childbirth and lactation is constantly changing the hormonal Continue reading

How to communicate with the child?

Many parents do not think about this issue – communication happens by itself, they are happy and the parents and the children. While. But there are adults who have already realized the great importance of the communication style to the personality development of their child.

It is experimentally proved that if the baby gets good nutrition and good medical care, but deprived of regular contact with an adult, he develops not only mentally, but also physically: not growing, lose weight, lose interest in life. However, as food can be harmful and incorrect communication can hurt the psyche of the child, his emotional well-being and will subsequently impact on his life.

How to communicate with your child? This question is complicated and simple at the same time. Difficult due to our style of communication is influenced by many factors, most of which we are not aware. Experts came to the conclusion that the parent’s interaction involuntarily imprinted in the psyche of the child before school age. As an adult, a person plays it like a natural. Thus from generation to generation is social inheritance of the style of communication: the majority of parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood. At the same Continue reading