We have all heard the statement that “one child grows up selfish”. The assertion is certainly questionable, but perhaps it is the truth. So before every family, where there is one child, then the question is whether to give birth a second? In most families, the question of a second child is progressing. And so the decision was made: we have a second!
And before the parents will have to solve the second question: what is the ideal difference between children? One answer, of course, does not exist, and each family finds its own solutions to the question of a second child. In this article we will look at possible options for the difference in age between the first and second child.
The age difference between the children up to two years. Such babies are called pogodki. The main advantage of such a small age difference between children is that the children will have friends in common, shared toys, shared interests. Kids close in age is the perfect pair for play, closer, perhaps, can only be twins, or twins. The young mother quickly gave birth to a second child, will sit on maternity leave for about four years, instead of two times in three years, that is, in the future will be able to make a career without the distraction of the birth of children. Also parents of children-the Continue reading
I hope parents will be more clearly your child’s behavior. We provide emotional memories adult readers of our website named e-Katerina (e-Katerina) with her permission and our comments. It remains to add that today such problems of the child are effectively solved for 6-12 months, depending on the maturity of the baby’s brain.
Psychologist Vladimir Pugach (Moscow)
The loss of a line or slipping phenomenon glance
“. a complete misunderstanding of the text” – Vladimir Nikolaevich, that’s me.
In 3rd grade science we had. And my mother needs me “not to disgrace her” (school work), and I remember my tears, “stupid” reading several times the same paragraph and a complete misunderstanding of what is written there. “Father, you will join her!” And until dad retell the text, just leave me alone! And now I’m me “was released only” memorize a few sentences entirely, tell yourself (totally not understanding what I mean), go to the father with the textbook, give it to him, I begin to talk memorized. ”
Such children when read to the end of the row, then their opinion is slipping:
if up, then it’s re-readability of the string;
if down — the transmission of the next line and read “one”.
From an operational Continue reading
Ended the school year, the long-awaited summer time: you can sleep as much as you like, no homework, no school – freedom, in a word!
But the parents now the question arises, what to do with the child, so that it will not go crazy from boredom and excess energy during the summer holidays, so as not brought to mind the immediate family and the time went to good use.
Of course, summer camps, kids clubs, etc. trip to village to the grandmother and the grandfather, vacation with her parents is a great idea. But, as a rule, free time still remains and it needed something to fill.
I offer readers Mirsovetov few ideas how to spend your summer holidays and leave time for boredom and idleness, for parents, or for those who will be with the child during the holidays at home.
The first thing I would like to say, is a very important mode of the day and its planning. So all day you with a child was based on a clear plan. Predictability and constancy give the child a sense of confidence and peace of mind, he knows what to do at one or another point of time.
Not necessarily stand up in alarm, and as early as in school, but it is desirable that Continue reading