“Try for one day to record all the phrases and comments that you tell your children. And find that more than half of the words and claims are of a negative connotation,” so begins a seminar for parents of Kiev psychologist and coach Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
The Soviet model of education, according to him, today’s children are not suitable. Strict discipline and insistence on the part of parents, children often perceive as a dislike. Post-Soviet moms and dads have to learn the respect for children, and the ability to clearly designate the boundaries of what, and more importantly, effective communication, without shouting and humiliation. But, it turns out, not many can do it. Adults unconsciously reproduce anything that you experienced in childhood. To break this vicious circle, of Ukrainian parents are sent to special training.
“I tell my son the same hurtful words that I once said mother, and blamed myself for it. But how to explain to him that you need to learn, don’t know,” about such a complaint comes to training every other parent. “Many adults think about how to educate children, not to cause them psychological trauma they received in childhood, standing in a corner on the buckwheat,” says Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
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We have all heard the statement that “one child grows up selfish”. The assertion is certainly questionable, but perhaps it is the truth. So before every family, where there is one child, then the question is whether to give birth a second? In most families, the question of a second child is progressing. And so the decision was made: we have a second!
And before the parents will have to solve the second question: what is the ideal difference between children? One answer, of course, does not exist, and each family finds its own solutions to the question of a second child. In this article we will look at possible options for the difference in age between the first and second child.
The age difference between the children up to two years. Such babies are called pogodki. The main advantage of such a small age difference between children is that the children will have friends in common, shared toys, shared interests. Kids close in age is the perfect pair for play, closer, perhaps, can only be twins, or twins. The young mother quickly gave birth to a second child, will sit on maternity leave for about four years, instead of two times in three years, that is, in the future will be able to make a career without the distraction of the birth of children. Also parents of children-the Continue reading
Read this article a few months ago. Who is the author, I don’t know.
All this time she never leaves my mind. Please read.
In the underpass near the metro station sits a woman of indeterminate age.
Pass in stride and thirty, and twenty-three, and forty-two. Hair
women’s matted and dirty, his head lowered in sorrow.
Before the woman spat on the floor transition is a bag. In the sack compassionate
citizens throwing money. And would not cast, right at the hands of a woman holding
weighty “argument” in favor of the fact that her money is necessary. On
woman sleeping child two years. He’s in a dirty cap, former
once white, in a sports suit. Transition – the place is quite
lively. And flows an endless stream of human crowd, and rings in a trifle
bags, and rustle of banknotes.
I walked past a woman about a month. I guessed who the money donated numerous passers-by. How to say how much is written, but our people are like this – pity.
Compassionately, to tears. Ready our people to give the shirt off his
the last penny out of his pocket to shake. Filed such “unfortunate” and
I feel that you still not so bad. Helped, kind Continue reading