“Try for one day to record all the phrases and comments that you tell your children. And find that more than half of the words and claims are of a negative connotation,” so begins a seminar for parents of Kiev psychologist and coach Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
The Soviet model of education, according to him, today’s children are not suitable. Strict discipline and insistence on the part of parents, children often perceive as a dislike. Post-Soviet moms and dads have to learn the respect for children, and the ability to clearly designate the boundaries of what, and more importantly, effective communication, without shouting and humiliation. But, it turns out, not many can do it. Adults unconsciously reproduce anything that you experienced in childhood. To break this vicious circle, of Ukrainian parents are sent to special training.
“I tell my son the same hurtful words that I once said mother, and blamed myself for it. But how to explain to him that you need to learn, don’t know,” about such a complaint comes to training every other parent. “Many adults think about how to educate children, not to cause them psychological trauma they received in childhood, standing in a corner on the buckwheat,” says Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
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Looking at the star of TV or top model, after a couple of months after birth showing beautiful bodies, ask the question – how stars lose weight after childbirth? How celebrities lose weight? How they manage to regain the perfect shape?
Not only that, the stars themselves are trying to “return to duty” as quickly as possible, but the audience wants to see their Pets are always in good shape, and the desire of the public – law for celebrities. Yes even the nasty paparazzi lurking in the most inappropriate places – so we have to control myself and without any pity for oneself again to become slim.
Recovery time from working stars never enough, and how fast celebrities lose weight after giving birth, suggests that not only do they make great efforts, but are also effective methods.
Today we offer to your attention the most effective diet for weight loss from world stars. But first – the experts ‘ opinion.
How celebrities lose weight: what doctors think
But doctors believe that intensive weight loss process is resorted to by star mom, is very harmful and is a great stress for the body. In a “normal” life to lose weight in this Continue reading
Many parents do not think about this issue – communication happens by itself, they are happy and the parents and the children. While. But there are adults who have already realized the great importance of the communication style to the personality development of their child.
It is experimentally proved that if the baby gets good nutrition and good medical care, but deprived of regular contact with an adult, he develops not only mentally, but also physically: not growing, lose weight, lose interest in life. However, as food can be harmful and incorrect communication can hurt the psyche of the child, his emotional well-being and will subsequently impact on his life.
How to communicate with your child? This question is complicated and simple at the same time. Difficult due to our style of communication is influenced by many factors, most of which we are not aware. Experts came to the conclusion that the parent’s interaction involuntarily imprinted in the psyche of the child before school age. As an adult, a person plays it like a natural. Thus from generation to generation is social inheritance of the style of communication: the majority of parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood. At the same Continue reading