Communication creates a number of unique social and psychological mechanisms through which is formed the social psyche.
Infection is a special method of exposure, a certain way of uniting large groups of people. The phenomenon of infection has diverse manifestations, such as dance, sports gambling, situatii panic, religious ecstasy, etc.
Infection is unconscious, spontaneous form of inclusion of the individual in certain mental States, as well as the total empathy of the mental state of a large group of people simultaneously.
Contamination is the transfer of mental attitude, with a strong emotional charge, the intensity of feelings and passions. The basis of the occurrence of infection — the emotional impact in terms of direct contact.
The source of infection is the carrier of the emotional charge the inductor. He passes the charge, which then is magnified in the interaction channels. There is a mental background contamination. He is in direct proportion to the size of audience and the extent of installation of the temperature of the inductor. As this emotional state occurs in the mass, there is a mechanism of multiple mutually reinforcing emotional influences people communicating. The individual Continue reading
“Try for one day to record all the phrases and comments that you tell your children. And find that more than half of the words and claims are of a negative connotation,” so begins a seminar for parents of Kiev psychologist and coach Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
The Soviet model of education, according to him, today’s children are not suitable. Strict discipline and insistence on the part of parents, children often perceive as a dislike. Post-Soviet moms and dads have to learn the respect for children, and the ability to clearly designate the boundaries of what, and more importantly, effective communication, without shouting and humiliation. But, it turns out, not many can do it. Adults unconsciously reproduce anything that you experienced in childhood. To break this vicious circle, of Ukrainian parents are sent to special training.
“I tell my son the same hurtful words that I once said mother, and blamed myself for it. But how to explain to him that you need to learn, don’t know,” about such a complaint comes to training every other parent. “Many adults think about how to educate children, not to cause them psychological trauma they received in childhood, standing in a corner on the buckwheat,” says Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
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Many parents do not think about this issue – communication happens by itself, they are happy and the parents and the children. While. But there are adults who have already realized the great importance of the communication style to the personality development of their child.
It is experimentally proved that if the baby gets good nutrition and good medical care, but deprived of regular contact with an adult, he develops not only mentally, but also physically: not growing, lose weight, lose interest in life. However, as food can be harmful and incorrect communication can hurt the psyche of the child, his emotional well-being and will subsequently impact on his life.
How to communicate with your child? This question is complicated and simple at the same time. Difficult due to our style of communication is influenced by many factors, most of which we are not aware. Experts came to the conclusion that the parent’s interaction involuntarily imprinted in the psyche of the child before school age. As an adult, a person plays it like a natural. Thus from generation to generation is social inheritance of the style of communication: the majority of parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood. At the same Continue reading