“Try for one day to record all the phrases and comments that you tell your children. And find that more than half of the words and claims are of a negative connotation,” so begins a seminar for parents of Kiev psychologist and coach Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
The Soviet model of education, according to him, today’s children are not suitable. Strict discipline and insistence on the part of parents, children often perceive as a dislike. Post-Soviet moms and dads have to learn the respect for children, and the ability to clearly designate the boundaries of what, and more importantly, effective communication, without shouting and humiliation. But, it turns out, not many can do it. Adults unconsciously reproduce anything that you experienced in childhood. To break this vicious circle, of Ukrainian parents are sent to special training.
“I tell my son the same hurtful words that I once said mother, and blamed myself for it. But how to explain to him that you need to learn, don’t know,” about such a complaint comes to training every other parent. “Many adults think about how to educate children, not to cause them psychological trauma they received in childhood, standing in a corner on the buckwheat,” says Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
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I often say that every kid – it’s the person and not his nurture, and develop a “under the General size fits all”. So the question is – and is “the proper upbringing of the child”? For me, vospitanie “right”, if the child grew up healthy physically and mentally and he grafted human values. So today I will tell you the 12 principles of child rearing, and the rest – your creativity.
What You do makes a huge difference. You – the standard of behavior for your child and all your words that you cannot scream, you have to be honest, you need to wear a hat and all the rest, will not mean anything until you will not to follow them. Do you think that will make a child, if I hear from you not to shout, and immediately after that will see how you yell at his father? Picture of the world in his head will be shaky and ambiguous, it is certainly not what you wanted to achieve. Baby learns to talk, to respond, to Express emotions, to behave in society, looking at you and daddy. So set an example.
Views on the education and actions of the parents must be United. Only then the child will feel the security and integrity of the surrounding world. If a mother comforting a baby after dad hits him on the butt with a belt, so you’re raising the paddle. Continue reading
CP children and young people is based on the legal system.
Facilities: children – persons under 18 years of age. Youth (14-30 years) – a special socio-demographic group, still in its infancy social maturity, whose position is determined by socio-economic condition of the society.
The lower age limit is determined by the fact that at this age the teenager the first time gets the right choice in social terms: to continue their studies at school, enroll in technical or liberal arts college, high school or go to work. For thirty years people tend to reach professional maturity, formation of his family, he takes a certain position in society.
Subjects: the Legislative bodies, increase and the judiciary.
Legal framework: international ur-Hb – docks, UNICEF, WHO, and mezhgosudarst agreement, Universal Declaration of Human Rights (Declaration of the Rights of the Child).
General federal level – the Constitution, the Family Code, the law on education, on social protection of the population, on social services, the federal (target) program (Russian Children, Youth Russia).
Regional level – based on obschefeder base docks government entities, district program (Kids in Moscow, Teen, Housing program, etc.). Continue reading