“Try for one day to record all the phrases and comments that you tell your children. And find that more than half of the words and claims are of a negative connotation,” so begins a seminar for parents of Kiev psychologist and coach Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
The Soviet model of education, according to him, today’s children are not suitable. Strict discipline and insistence on the part of parents, children often perceive as a dislike. Post-Soviet moms and dads have to learn the respect for children, and the ability to clearly designate the boundaries of what, and more importantly, effective communication, without shouting and humiliation. But, it turns out, not many can do it. Adults unconsciously reproduce anything that you experienced in childhood. To break this vicious circle, of Ukrainian parents are sent to special training.
“I tell my son the same hurtful words that I once said mother, and blamed myself for it. But how to explain to him that you need to learn, don’t know,” about such a complaint comes to training every other parent. “Many adults think about how to educate children, not to cause them psychological trauma they received in childhood, standing in a corner on the buckwheat,” says Evgeny Miroshnichenko.
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Many parents do not think about this issue – communication happens by itself, they are happy and the parents and the children. While. But there are adults who have already realized the great importance of the communication style to the personality development of their child.
It is experimentally proved that if the baby gets good nutrition and good medical care, but deprived of regular contact with an adult, he develops not only mentally, but also physically: not growing, lose weight, lose interest in life. However, as food can be harmful and incorrect communication can hurt the psyche of the child, his emotional well-being and will subsequently impact on his life.
How to communicate with your child? This question is complicated and simple at the same time. Difficult due to our style of communication is influenced by many factors, most of which we are not aware. Experts came to the conclusion that the parent’s interaction involuntarily imprinted in the psyche of the child before school age. As an adult, a person plays it like a natural. Thus from generation to generation is social inheritance of the style of communication: the majority of parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood. At the same Continue reading
Modern methods of child-rearing aims to maximally reveal potential of a child from an early age. Scientific and technological progress is changing the world around us with incredible speed and to educate children in need so that they perceive the surrounding reality and without difficulty to assimilate enormous information load. It is therefore necessary to abandon the outdated methods of education of children, as they do not allow you to open up fully instilled in children the potential. The ability of the child, which in the recent past would have been considered phenomenal, in the current reality are the absolute norm. 10 years ago the ability of a three year old child to include a button on the TV, it was for the parents reason to be proud of early development of your baby, and now it’s not uncommon for 2-3 year old kids learning laptops and tablets.
The method of education of children of preschool age
In early childhood, basic human abilities, so you need almost from birth to deal with the baby, constantly teaching him new knowledge and skills. The primary mission of parents – the right upbringing of the child, which is necessary to choose the right methodology for education of children of preschool age. This choice will depend on how a child grows, his character, Continue reading